Every Child Deserves a Family
Family Equality Council

ECDF Facts


Ready to start a conversation about the Every Child Deserves a Family Campaign?
Here are some great places to begin:

1. Every Child Deserves a Stable, Loving, Forever Family.

  • Adoption and parenting should focus on creating stable, loving forever homes for kids.
  • All child welfare decisions should be made in the best interests of the child, not based on the religious beliefs of child services agencies or workers.
  • We have laws governing child services agencies for a reason. Child services workers should be expected to follow those laws. When states allow adoption decisions to be based on the individual beliefs of child placement workers and agencies, instead of the best interests of children, it’s kids who pay the price.
  • “License to discriminate” laws allow child services agencies to keep a child in foster care or a government group home rather than allowing her to be adopted by qualified, loving parents, simply because they don’t pass an agency’s religious test.
  • In 2015, there were 21,287 children in foster care waiting to be adopted in the seven states with these adoption and foster care discrimination laws.
  • More than half of the young people in foster care are youth of color; Black youth, Hispanic youth, and American Indian/Alaska Native youth are among the most likely to be in foster care. For example, 69% of youth in out-of-home care in the state of Texas are youth of color, a state where over 1,000 children age out of foster care each year without a forever family, which passed a child services “license to discriminate” law in 2017.
  • In 2015, over 20,000 young people “aged out” of foster care across the country, turning 18 without ever finding a loving, forever family – placing them at higher risk of involvement with the criminal justice system, homelessness, unemployment, and being trafficked.
  • An estimated 2 million LGBTQ people would consider serving as foster or adoptive parents but could face discriminatory barriers to doing so because of existing state laws, policies and practices.

2. Discriminatory Child Services Laws Hurt Marginalized Youth.

  • Allowing child services providers to discriminate reduces the number of qualified foster and adoptive homes for all kids in care.
  • Same-sex couples are six times more likely to foster, and four times more likely to adopt, than opposite-sex couples. And, LGBTQ people are more likely to adopt older children and children with disabilities –children who have the most difficulty finding forever homes.
  • “License to discriminate” laws allow child services agencies to refuse to place LGBTQ youth - who are overrepresented in the foster care system - with affirming and accepting parents. These laws also mean that a worker could place an LGBTQ youth with a family that intends to place them in harmful conversion therapy.
  • Children of color are overrepresented in the foster care system, constituting over half of children in care. States are required to recruit a pool of foster and adoptive parents that mirrors the population of kids in care, and significantly, more than a third of same-sex couples raising children are people of color. People of color are more likely to identify as LGBTQ.
  • Marginalized youth in the child welfare system, including those who are LGBTQ and youth of color, deserve culturally competent, safe, and supportive care.

3. Americans and Child Welfare Experts Oppose Discrimination by Adoption and Foster Care Agencies.

  • Two-thirds of Americans – including a majority of both Republicans and evangelicals – oppose providing taxpayer funding to agencies which refuse to place children with gay or lesbian people.
  • Leading child welfare organizations1 have endorsed the federal Every Child Deserves a Family Act, which bans discrimination in taxpayer funded adoption and foster care services based on sexual orientation, gender identity, or marital status.

4. “License to Discriminate” Adoption and Foster Care Laws Harm Children

Child services agencies should put children first, always. But when agencies and workers are allowed to discriminate and put their personal beliefs ahead of the best interests of children:

  • A child services worker could decide to keep a child in foster care rather than place her with a loving, qualified lesbian couple.
  • A Christian agency could deny adoption by Jewish parents, and a Jewish agency could deny adoption by Christian parents.
  • Agencies could refuse to allow an orphaned child to be adopted by an extended family member like a gay uncle or a transgender grandmother.
  • Agencies could refuse to place an LGBTQ youth with accepting parents, but could instead place them with parents who intend to force them into harmful conversion therapy2.
  • An agency could refuse to place a child with serious medical needs with a nurse who has the skills to care for her, just because that nurse is bisexual or of a different faith than the agency or agency worker.

1 These organizations include the Child Welfare League of America, the National Association of Social Workers, North American Council on Adoptable Children, American Psychological Association, American Medical Association, American Academy of Pediatrics and Voice for Adoption.

2 So-called “conversion therapy” is a medically discredited practice to change the sexual orientation or gender identity of an LGBTQ child or adult.